After 40 dating tips
Life is dynamic -- it has to be in order for it to evolve. Falling in love can cause people to do stupid things; things that can have really bad outcomes, simply because they were so blinded by their powerful feelings that they didn't realize the mistake they were making.
Knowing what to expect helps, as does taking your time, being patient, and understanding that you don't come first.
It was a pleasure to speak with David Bennet on Last First Date Radio and listen to his dating advice for men over 40.
Following are highlights of our loosely transcribed conversation.
You have to work hard to find someone you really want and really like – or, as one married male friend put it, “someone normal” (apparently normal men are in short supply).
The search is a kind of journey, and along the way you tend to learn a few things about yourself, and about the society we live in. Everyone knows lots of fabulous single women in their 40s …but can’t think of any equally fabulous single men the same age.
A whole range of products could eliminate the six signs of genital aging.
Men develop their body to impress women instead of their personality. Let women see things in your life from the best possible point of view. Talking to women helps you understand women better. A new study just came out: men prefer women who compliment them a lot. When you write a message to a women, keep it confident and leave them curious to know more. Most divorced men and women have some pretty bad memories of their marriage. But what does that mean for your new, budding, happy, "perfect" relationship? Do I trust his judgment, his loyalty, his friendship, his love for me?What are some of the biggest issues for men dating over 40? Dating seems mysterious and there’s nothing they can do about it.
If your car wasn’t running well, you’d go to a mechanic.It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single, attractive, heterosexual woman over the age of 40 must be in need of a man.